My Christian gf wants me to act more masculine what exactly should I do or not do within Christian beliefs?
May 21, 3901 by Jamie | Posted in Religion & Spirituality
Ok, I have not been inordinately religious throughout my life and only recently started attending my gf's church. I met her in middle school and at the time and later in elevated school she was not religious herself. She moved back after her father retired from the military and they had to relocate while she was in high school. I recently stopped a gay relationship that I had with someone that I met in Summer School at my college. That has ended though we are still friends (no earthy contact, JUST FRIENDS!!). He and I pledged chastity and took a pledge to refrain from all bodily contact (including masturbation) unless it is within the confines of a hetereosexual marriage with a woman that we love. Ok, Heather and I are now bf/gf and when all is said after graduation from college we want to get married. My former bf Jason is also a member of the church and he is dating a girl from the church. I yearning that they can reach the level of love and happiness I have with Heather. I want to marry Heather (in three years after college graduation for both of us) and ancestor her children.
Ok, now the problems. Even though I'm 19 I am still very tightly tied to my mother's "apron strings". I still atmosphere like a boy and not a man. Whatever my mother says I do. For example if she said "jump!!" I would ask her "how grand?" lol lol.
I was very effeminate acting as a child. In middle school I loved to read and just do quiet activities. I was the least stylish boy in the school often called the "little queer" by my classmates. When they would bully me I would start crying and beg them to check out me alone. If a teacher noticed or other adult they would intervene to stop it but sometimes it was done away when no adults could see my predicatment. In middle school Heather saved me from being band raped by some boys who saw them taking me under the bleachers and starting to assault me. She had a baseball bat and beat them so badly that they needed medical r. When their parents became aware of what they were trying to do they all dropped any police or school action directed against Heather. She became my protector and my only authentic friend.
Ok, on Saturday I had a short haircut to look more masculine. I still have a lot of effeminate mannerisms and she wants me to business on stopping them.
She also wants me to work on developing masculine interests.
Ok, since she is Christian I assume this means masculine interests such as drinking, smoking, and gambling are not what she means lol lol.
What about sports? I Shrink sports but do I have to watch all the mindless violence and striving for points. Who cares what team wins!!
I am a Chemistry notable in college with an interest in Biochemistry. The youth pastor says that there is no coflict with science and church. I've had a few counseling sessions with him alone and together with Heather and we've witnessed diverse passages in the Bible. Most of the time it has to do with refraining from sexual acts as the focus and not whether Evolution is correct or not or area lol lol.
Heather wants me to throw away some of the tight shorts that I have that she says are provocative and not suitable for a either a manful or female to wear. Anyway I need some ideas on how to act masculine lol lol. Oh, I kind of "giggle" a lot and she says that's something that men don't do. How do I lay off? I've been giggling for a lot of yearsl lol lol.
This is sad.
You shouldn't try to transmute who you are or what you are for any person or religion.
To thine own self be true.
Bones | May 21, 4187
Someday you'll choke up fighting the fact that you are gay, and I hope it's before you marry this girl and ruin her (and YOUR) life.
DigitalGhost | May 21, 4197
Block being a giant pussy, and grow a set of balls. You have WAY too many feminine qualities to call yourself a man (lack of will for competition, for one). Learn how to secure yourself. Get in shape. Things like those are masculine qualities.
Allan | May 21, 4352
say her to buzz off. if miss priss can't (for whatever reason) take you as you are then, hello shes not worth your time. seriously
oh and, how elongated have you been seeing her, if that's even relevant at all, I don't know just making a random assumption...
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Worship_the_CREATOR | May 21, 4524
It sounds like things aren't prevalent to work out with you and Heather. Sorry hon.
Priรciℓℓα ☼ | May 21, 4581
I extremely think Heather wants you to be someone you are not. Don't change for anyone. You won't be honest to yourself if you do. If she's working so hard to change you now, it will only get worse.
PattyAnn | May 21, 4619
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