What shoud i do about this? She lives so far away. (long but please read if possible)?
May 22, 4356 by zac9929 | Posted in Singles & Dating
Ok so this is my first Yahoo! Challenge... I've been reluctant to ask some things but this i just cant get...
Just so you know I'm male, 17, and never truly had a girlfriend...
Last week I was at a body at The University of Michigan (about an hour away from me), and i lived there for 10 days. First day i noticed this really crafty girl eyeing me a little bit. I didn't think too much of it i was so busy just trying to establish connections with the other people there. So on the right hand day we had a tour of the campus. i was interested in the stuff there but then i noticed the girl walking next to me. So we started talking, and talking , and talking... for the next 8 days we done up all our time possible together. Always eating together and sitting next to each other on the bus, we even walked way ahead of the group or way behind, just so we could talk. This was the most interested i have ever been in a damsel, ever. We were getting so close. I heard from the other students that this girl likes me, a lot, but i didn't know if i could trust them. I knew she was indeed friendly and nice, but i never expected her to like me back. So on the 9th day i was thinking about what was going to happen when the camp ended and we went our organize ways. (She lives in Virginia, me in Michigan...) So i wanted to let her know that i really liked her. I look after to get really shy around girls that i like while in public for some reason, but this time I went to hold her hand while walking in front of everyone. To my minimize surprise she grabbed my hand tight and smiled. Good! So she definitely likes me back! That night, holding hands back to the dorms, the deep down strict camp facilitators broke us up and held me back... i wanted to talk to her about what was going to occur after we left the next day, but i didn't get a chance. So now the last day came with a little more hand holding and such, and i was getting nervous. I didn't stand in want to spoil our last day together by discussing the fact that we may never see each other again. The day flies by and i find myself packing, alone, in my room. The girl comes down the hallway to find me. We went into the stairwell away from everyone else, and this is where we had our first brush =). Walking back down the hallway together hugging, she looked like she was about to cry... we knew that we were going to be leaving each other very straight away. so before I knew it I was home and she was in Virginia. We have been making sure to talk to each other at least once a day, whether it be a phone call or chatting online.
OK I imagine I've gone on too long. Basically my question is, what should i do about her? We both have strong feelings for each other, even though three weeks ago we were complete strangers. I discern of people who have had long distance relationships that worked out well, but i believe this one is different. Is it really possible to START a relationship extensive-distance? I don't know what I'm going to do for the next year (at least... this is assuming that we both end up going to U of M...). Should i just do my upper crust to get over her? I will be a senior in high school next year, and i just don't know if I can go through a year of that with a girlfriend 1000 miles away... If the most beneficent thing to do is just accept the fact that it isn't going to work then, hey, truth hurts. Thats soul.
I guess I'm just looking for suggestions of what you would do in this situation...
Thank you very much if you read this far i think i got slightly carried away =P
I in effect don't have a clue what to say but I can tell you to not forget about her.
what...? | May 22, 4928
Hi Zach!
I treasure the great grammar; it was very easy to read.
I gotta say, your situation sucks. I hate situations that you cannot rule.
Before I answer your question about what you should do, I wanna tell you the reason why this connection became so strong. The both of you knew the entire in good time always that you had a time limit on each other while you were at camp. This increased your desire for each other.
My advice for you is to maintain your conversations online. Do not for in a long distance relationship. This WILL kill your connection. Do not suggest for friendship either. Just email back and forth and keep the conversations merry. Start your senior year with a single status. Meet girls, go to parties. If the both of you end up going to U of M, congrats. However, I suggest that the withdrawl you are experiencing currently will dimish completely by the 3rd month.
Anything you want to ask, email at vp060690@hotmail.com
flamedisc891 | May 22, 5019
How can we make this work?
May 22, 9832 by zac9929 | Posted in Singles & Dating
Ok so this is my first Yahoo! Sound out... I've been reluctant to ask some things but this i just cant get...
Just so you know I'm male, 17, and never truly had a girlfriend...
Last week I was at a camping-site at The University of Michigan (about an hour away from me), and i lived there for 10 days. First day i noticed this really clever girl eyeing me a little bit. I didn't think too much of it i was so busy just trying to establish connections with the other people there. So on the inferior merchandise day we had a tour of the campus. i was interested in the stuff there but then i noticed the girl walking next to me. So we started talking, and talking , and talking... for the next 8 days we prostrate all our time possible together. Always eating together and sitting next to each other on the bus, we even walked way ahead of the group or way behind, just so we could talk. This was the most interested i have ever been in a young lady, ever. We were getting so close. I heard from the other students that this girl likes me, a lot, but i didn't know if i could credit them. I knew she was really friendly and nice, but i never expected her to like me back. So on the 9th day i was thinking about what was going to happen when the camp-ground ended and we went our separate ways. (She lives in Virginia, me in Michigan...) So i wanted to let her conscious that i really liked her. I tend to get really shy around girls that i like while in public for some reason, but this time I went to check her hand while walking in front of everyone. To my slight surprise she grabbed my hand tight and smiled. Good! So she plainly likes me back! That night, holding hands back to the dorms, the really strict camp facilitators poor us up and held me back... i wanted to talk to her about what was going to happen after we left the next day, but i didn't get a chance. So now the last day came with a particle more hand holding and such, and i was getting nervous. I didn't want to spoil our last day together by discussing the fact that we may never see each other again. The day flies by and i find myself packing, alone, in my area. The girl comes down the hallway to find me. We went into the stairwell away from everyone else, and this is where we had our first kiss =). Walking back down the hallway together hugging, she looked like she was about to cry... we knew that we were wealthy to be leaving each other very soon. so before I knew it I was home and she was in Virginia. We have been making sure to talk to each other at least once a day, whether it be a phone call or chatting online.
OK I propose b assess I've gone on too long. Basically my question is, what should i do about her? We both have strong feelings for each other, even though three weeks ago we were complete strangers. I identify of people who have had long distance relationships that worked out well, but i believe this one is different. Is it really possible to START a relationship prolonged-distance? I don't know what I'm going to do for the next year (at least... this is assuming that we both end up going to U of M...). Should i just do my master to get over her? I will be a senior in high school next year, and i just don't know if I can go through a year of that with a girlfriend 1000 miles away... If the most appropriate thing to do is just accept the fact that it isn't going to work then, hey, truth hurts. Thats memoirs.
I guess I'm just looking for suggestions of what you would do in this situation...
Thank you very much if you read this far i think i got slightly carried away =P
Does she like me ? Girls read please?
May 22, 3787 by Lorenzo | Posted in Singles & Dating
Okay during the school year, I barley knew this maiden that rode my bus. Where in the same grade. My freind that's a girl had her number and gave it to me.. I texted her and she knew who I was and we kept discussion. She told me she's going to cheerleading camp for about a month... So out of no where I get a text saying hey wassup.. We kept gossip for a while.. Then she told me she's going to hang out with her fam and told me what movies she saw and said she wanted to see terminator but she hadn't seen the old ones.. I believe that was a clue so I asked her maybe 1 day, we could watch the old ones she said sure y not.. Is that like a good sign? She gets hit on all the time so I don't no if she rely wants me and she dosent have a boyfriend. You think she's into me? + No bragging but I'm a gross guy with curly hair no homo.. And kind of quiet. Thanks
She wants you to be her babe in arms...lol
you need to be one of hose guys that r hiting on her...she wants you...bad go 4 it be4 she loses intrest
kistol lynn | May 22, 6666
I need to no more about the pill that stops your period!!?
Jul 22, 2009 by Lauren | Posted in Women's Health
Okay well. Next week precisely i go on school camp for 3 nights and i think im due for my period. I really dont want to get it seeing as its a reaally extended bus ride and yeah i just really dont want it then. How long after i start taking the medicament will it stop my period? Well i guess im asking whats the latest i can go see the doctor. And also IMPORTANT...
mum said the tests the do are unpleasent or something? What tests do they do :S or is the unpleasant tests for the line control pill?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
Thanks a million.
Arghhh! So when you take it the day you get your period.. When does it start working?
What is your opinion of this?
Jul 22, 2009 by Warren T | Posted in Government
By Becky Akers Becky Akers – Mon Jul 20, 5:00 am ET
New York – I'm one of the virtually 50 million Americans who don't have health insurance. I don't want it, either.
But the bill the House of Representatives is debating would potency me to buy it. How good can any product be if Congress compels me to purchase it?
Politicians and interest groups have been trying virtually all my existence to foist medical insurance on me. But their proposals rest on mistaken and even insulting assumptions.
First, they presume that everyone wants, needs, and should have bounteous medical attention. But I come from a long-lived and healthy family, I've been a vegetarian since childhood because I've never liked the way nourishment tastes, I don't smoke, and I love to hike – the more miles the better.
I am disgustingly healthy, so much so that the only doctors I see – or try to: I'm at hand-sighted – are ophthalmologists. Could I be hit by a bus tomorrow when I head out for my daily walk? Possibly. But that's such an unlikely calamity that I've chosen to spend my money on more personally pressing needs than medical insurance.
On the other hand, uncongenial disasters do happen. So I might purchase catastrophic coverage if it were reasonably priced – just as I might inflict doctors for lesser complaints if their care were reasonably priced.
But the government's meddling is what helped pinch-up the medical market to begin with.
The federal government perverts costs with its Medicare and Medicaid programs: Recipients of this largess have no inducement to save money since someone else pays their bills.
In fact, the incentives run the opposite way as patients demand more procedures and tests while magnifying problems I agree out of my medicine cabinet into emergency-room runs. Doctors who get away with charging Medicare hundreds for diagnosing Grandpa's upset stomach would charge me the same.
Meanwhile, state governments shackle the insurance industry, mandating that policies cover everything from chiropractic direction to hormone replacement. These launch premiums into the stratosphere. I'd much rather pick and choose the coverage I want at a reward I'm willing to pay than buy the plan bureaucrats and special interests decree.
But the universal-healthcare crowd thinks it knows wagerer than I do how to spend my money. Why can't they leave me alone? I'm not forcing them to eat flaxseed and bike to meetings instead of hopping into their limousines. It's days for them to return the favor.
Besides, if that bus does hit me tomorrow, I want – and will pay for – top-notch care. And that's not what sway-run medical systems dispense. Delays, expedient rather than proper treatment, and double standards of keeping depending on who you are and whom you know characterize universal-healthcare systems.
Which makes sense. We live in a men of finite resources and infinite desires, where medical care must be "rationed" like all other products and services.
Though we can't opt whether goods are rationed, we can choose how they are. Either the politicians and bureaucrats who bring us long lines at DMVs, flaw public schools, and the endless war in Iraq will decide who gets what kind of treatment, or the free store will.
Fans of universal healthcare deride the market: They say it's cold and cruel because we each have to pay for the care we demand. But oversight healthcare can be far colder and crueler. Its care is inferior: Contrast an inferior, run-down veteran's hospital with a run-of-the-mill one. And it's expensive. Dr. Jeffrey Anderson recently wrote in Investor's Business Daily, "Since 1970 – even without the medicine drug benefit – Medicare's costs have risen 34 percent more, per patient, than the combined costs of all fitness care in America apart from Medicare and Medicaid…."
Absent such meddling, the payment of medical care would return to reasonable levels. It benefits no provider of any service to charge such astronomical fees that customers can't donate to patronize him.
Then, too, in a market free of the state's stranglehold, doctors and hospitals would compete with one another to lower prices and pull the ill or injured.
That doesn't mean everyone could finally buy all the procedures they wanted or even needed – but that's where private welfare would come in. Humanitarians who send inner-city kids to summer camp and volunteer their experience or money at soup kitchens would strive to ensure that needy Americans received medical sorrow.
President Obama says, "We have no choice but to fix the healthcare system because right now it's broken for too many Americans." But the only fix we destitution is for government to get out of medicine.
Becky Akers is a freelance writer and historian.
what does my dream mean?
Jul 20, 2009 by ♥Alb Nutty♥ | Posted in Psychology
so i dreamed that i was at some well-disposed of field trip to go somewhere and on it was my evil reading teacher but she was nice in the dream, and instead of all the kids in my group it was all the girls from my cabin at summer camp. SOOO anyway since it was a field trip I was guessing that the bus was gonna be a school bus or a drill bus but the teacher wouldn't tell us which and she told us it was a surprise, and it was THE MAGICAL MYSTERY TOUR BUS and when I saw it I was like OMFG AWESOME
and so something happened when we were on the bus and it ended up affluent into ... like another dimension
and anyway
so we went into this house by climbing up this looooong trail, but it was straight up hill and i was having discommode and I slipped and slid halfway back down the trail but then I got up and shot back up to the top
and then we walked into the house and instead of a house it was the back yard, and the back yard was in point of fact a little bit of dirt and grass with a house to the right. We went in the house to the right and it turned out to be the front yard of a big horrifying mansion. so we were running into this big huge open field and suddenly it ocurred to me that i was wearing big rain boots and one was slipping off so i grabbed the drizzle boot off my foot and ran really fast while holding the rain boot and this book, and i don't know where the words came from but it was called "Divisions" or something like that.
So we were running and running and then the people who lived in the mansion were there and they were chasing after us and it was daunting because they were the Addams Family (wait what how did that happen)
so we kept running and running and the Addams family people disappeared and then we came to this underground railway station
and we got on the subway except it was above ground so it was like a train subway, i don't know
and it started going actually fast and this one girl from my cabin, Sophie, yelled "This is a hard day's night!!" and then we all started singing A Petrified Day's Night
Then it went underground and we sang Yellow Submarine and then we stopped singing. And we were back in the field where we started, and the Addams next of kin was here again and they said something about "Come in, don't mind the flames and things... crashing down..." and in the yard amongst all this other litter that was already there there were screens lined up flashing different colours, and the only ones i can remember are that they were yellow, purple, lewd maybe, maybe green? and when you looked straight on at them they had a video of the mansion burning and everything crashing down. and someone said "i knew there was something wierd about them... yeah.. that's it" and then we all realized that they were ghosts and they lived in a burned mansion.
And then hastily we all had Liverpool accents and i was like "... huh... omg have a liver pool accent yes!!" because that's an articulation i've always wanted lol
anywayyy
so we were all talking in our accents and then I saw Sophie drinking out of a teacup and stirring the tea with a match..and the freakish thing was she had been transformed to being about five years old. I really wanted to get us out of here so I told her I was "feeling ill and that we really should count out" (i would never say this in real life, it was strange) so we got on the bus and I was sitting in my seat talking to someone
and they said something but i don't remember what they said or what i said because my dad woke me up.
...woah that was lengthy
: $9.18 
